Love. Self. Entirely.

Life is Amazing

I am here. Just been working a lot and applying to graduate programs and trying to get this house sold.

I've decided to embark on something different this year. I plan to challenge myself on anything that is safe, affordable and suits my fancy. One new thing a week, I'm not going to think about it. I'm just going to do it. It can be something life changing or mundane the only requirement is that it is something I've never done but I'm interested in trying.

First up, indoor rock climbing. My upper body strength sucks and I have a slight fear of heights but I'm ready to give it a whirl. 

I hope everyone else out there (who reads this) is having a glorious January. I know that mine is off to a pretty decent start.

Curbing My Disillusionment

"The longer you stay in one place, the greater your chance of disillusionment."

I received this as my Quote of the Day and it hit the nail right on the head. Even though lately I have been quite content and still moving myself towards leaving Atlanta (even though it is going quiet SLOWLY), it's nice to see some type of reinforcement especially when you are heading towards uncharted waters.

My two classes will be over next week, so I can focus on my side projects fully again. I'm quite excited and I have so many ideas that I can't wait to execute. Next week, I will also find out what team I'll be skating on next year so we shall see how that pans out; I'm not that excited about it but there is nothing I can do about it so I just have to move forward. 

Right now, I'm thankful. I have to buy some more dental insurance and I'm going to take care of my teeth. I have a lot of work I need to do and I'm going to just do it. No more excuses, I'm going to take care of me - wish me luck for I hate dealing with the dentist!

Next year will be a healthier me, the next part will be moving this condo but it'll get done. I know it will I just have to figure out how to go about it. Here's to 2010 (yes, I know I'm a tad bit early)!

Have a great weekend, everyone!

The End of National Blog Posting Month

The idea that I actually made it is amazing. It wasn't as hard as I expected but I am quite glad to go back to my original schedule of posting.

Today is my last day in Maryland, I'll be back in Atlanta tonight. It was a fun vacation, it was filled with new memories and remembrances of times past.

I saw old friends, my auntie (who looks and laughs just like mother) and bonded with my father. Even though my family is quite dysfunctional - I'm glad that the family that I talk to is around and that I loyal friends that buffer all the holes where my old family once stood. 

Tuesday means it's back to the grind. It's going to take me a minute to adjust to being back at work and to start getting back involved with school and things of that nature. Classes end on December 11th so I'm almost there, so I can't blow it now. I bought my brother's christmas gift on Black Friday - even though, I'm sure I'll give it to him on his birthday. 

I'm actually looking forward to December. 

Glee - True Colors (Full HQ Studio)

 

I really need to start watching Glee with a box of tissues, I've been getting more emotional over this show more than I do things that are happening to me in real life. Which is a refreshing change, it's nice NOT to have drama flowing around me. 

So this past episode had the Glee squad competing against other glee clubs in a competition that would get them ready for regionals. The first was an inner school squad that of course broke it down by performing such gems as "Bootylicious" and songs of that sort, which I loved. A deaf school caught wind of it and the next thing you knew their glee club showed up to do battle. They sang Imagine in ASL and I could feel the waterworks come. It was so beautiful, it touched everyone even the actors in the show, you could see it; it was just amazing. 

Now, I'm a Cyndi Lauper fan so I was delighted when this past episode ended with the gan singing True Colors. I can't help but to share it. I hope you enjoy it as much as I do.

Giving Thanks

Happy Thanksgiving everyone!

I plan to work out, stay put and work until I have to go out with my father and step-mother. Today, I want to express my thanks for the things I'm happy about in my life.

• I have peace of mind.
• I traveled more this year than I have in a long time and next year, I'll do even more.
• I decided to go back to school, seriously. I have applied to schools in the past and have been accepted but I never follow through...not this time.
• I decided that I will be moving overseas next year and I'm excited about that.
• I found a roommate until February to help with expenses.
• My car maintenance is pretty okay.
• I have gotten closer with my best friend in Atlanta.
• I'm thankful that my brother and I are still extremely close even though we don't live together anymore.
• I'm thankful that I'm challenging my ideas of design and I'm starting to be creative.
• I'm happy that the people in my life, I chose them and they chose me and we bring stability and reliability to our lives.
• I'm thankful to still have a job with a boss that I love in this economy.
• I'm happy to stumbled upon a lot of interesting blogs that give me hope, a sense of clarity or the much needed laugh because I really need it sometimes.
• I'm just thankful to be healthy and for the most part happy.
• I'm thankful that my dad is doing well with his kidney transplant and that both my brother and I are taking better care of ourselves health wise.

I hope everyones Thanksgiving is a blessing OR if it isn't that you have plenty of booze to get you through it!

Ode to Dance - Part Deux

My body right now is quite sore. On Saturday, I decided to make my "trifecta" workout a weekly staple. My trifecta is made up of 12 minutes of plyometric type exercises (either focusing on the upper, lower body or core), 2 hours of derby skate practice and 1.5 hours of modern - back to back. 

This is my second week and I definitely feel it but I'm proud of myself for making it. Next week, I won't be able to do it because I have a photography session to handle after derby practice but I'll pick right back up with the week after.

I have finally succumbed to my love of modern dance. I, at times, felt that I was past the age to pursue any type of dance structure (not talking professionally) but I've been reading about some dancers who started late and even though my goal is to perform something one day - nothing huge - it's nice to hear that I may have the option.

Right now though, I'm trying my best to find my balance. UGH, balancing on skates and balancing while you are in releve with a leg in the air are totally two different things. I feel like such a fish out of water but I remember how I was when I first started to skate (I could barely stand) OR when I took up dancing in high school (I couldn't go across the floor without tripping), there is a learning curve in everything new that you do. It doesn't stop it from annoying the hell out of you, though!

Are my feet ever going to look cute again? 

Guilt & The Single

For the past couple of months, I have been knee deep in an assortment of things. Trying to sell my house, working out, doing school work, getting stuff together to apply to programs and just trying to enjoy my life. 

Lately, I have been scrounging the internets finding various blogs on expatriate life and reading about various places. Places that I plan to see next year, which makes me quite happy. The fear that has so often blocked me is still present but I'm no longer letting myself listen to it. I'm just going to go for it and come what may but either way, I plan to enjoy and live this life. 

So...I tried Modern Dance on Saturday.

I think I actually had a some type of death wish. I woke up to do 12 minutes of MaxFit, then I went to derby practice and skated for two hours and then I followed it with an 1.5 hour modern dance class. I couldn't stand by the end of it and wanted nothing more but to sleep but did I? Nope.

Well, the modern dance teacher was a substitute and she kicked my ass. I haven't taken an official dance class in years and I only dabbled in modern but this really kicked my butt and it was fun. I definitely will  be going back and I really enjoyed the teacher even though she was tough but I've always enjoyed being forced to push myself. She kept telling us that in order to get better, you have to learn to challenge yourself and let yourself go. If we never challenged our bodies, we would never know what they are capable of. 

We danced to Maxwell's "Pretty Wings" and I felt like a fish out of water but that didn't stop me and little by little, I started to lose my inhibitions and let the music take over. I'm not saying it looked particularly pretty but I was in the moment - feeling the music and trying my best to have my body catch up with what was going on in my head. Reaching for something, challenging myself even if I wasn't quite sure with what I was doing; I did my best to keep on reaching.

I miss dancing, I miss challenging myself and my feelings and being exposed which is why I love the arts so much. I can channel all my feelings into other arena's instead of constantly verbalizing it. I can heal myself through art or creative expression instead of letting things stay bottled up inside me causing me more harm than good. I miss feeling free and limitless and walking into a room for an hour or so where I can leave my problems at the door and just let my body be my guide, I just miss it all.

I'll have to work at it to get back to where I once was, if I can at this point but I'm going to try my hardest or at least try, anyway.

Assessing Your LIfe

“The unexamined life is not worth living.” Socrates

I think as humans we find it's easier to give advice than to take it (even if it's our own advice). Often times, the world is going by us so fast that it's often hard to take time to slow down and think. You only have 24 hours in a day and we spend 8 of them sleeping, 8 of them working and who knows really how we spend the remaining 8 most of the time.

I'll admit that I'm one of those people, it's hard for me to slow down; usually I operate between the realms of mania and hurried anxiety which of course leads me to eventually crash and burn and I don't leave my bed for a weekend but I digress...

The point I'm making is that we need to take that time sometimes, even if it bothers us, even if it goes against our nature and just figure out what the hell we are doing, is this path we are on working for us or were we led to believe that it would. If we "checked in" with ourselves as much as we checked in with our close family and friends, I think there would be more people in the world happy with their lives and their place in this world.

Or maybe, that's just my wishful thinking. Either way, I'm taking the time to change my path and pursue other things because what I was doing prior was not working for me, so far I'm nervous but I'm happier every day, so I have to be doing something right. 

It's not you. It's me.

"People often say that this or that person has not yet found himself. But the self is not something one finds. It is something one creates."

I think I'm influx in another identity crisis. I don't know if I have grandiose ideals of people or situations OR if I don't have high enough expectations and expect that things more often than not won't come to pass; I'm not exactly sure where on that spectrum I lie, I just know that it's time for me to stop allowing myself to exist there.

I will admit. I have been in a pretty foul mood lately not all the time but enough hours of the day that I'm starting to feel not like myself. I chop off some of it to my monthly hormonal cycle getting ready to rule it's head but I'll just fucking admit it, I'm just aggravated and fed up with bullshit (yes, including my own).